electricbalalaika: Okay, this apparently needs to be said. I keep seeing people sending in asks to...

electricbalalaika:

Okay, this apparently needs to be said. I keep seeing people sending in asks to other people, asking what their gender is.
Or making some stupid remark “gendering” their art or the tone (the goddamn tone!) of their posts.

This is. NOT. Okay.

The ONLY time it is appropriate to ask what somebody’s gender is, is for conversation. AS IN, for the purposes of respecting them by referring to them as their gender identity.

If you think that you, for some goddamn reason, have the right to know “what is between somebody’s legs” you can fuck right off.
And another thing? You better be damn skippy with WHATEVER answer you get.
You do not question or interrogate a person about their answer.